Why Mediation Works

Why is it that mediation works when parties are unable to resolve their dispute by themselves?

Mediation works because it provides a safe and supportive environment where parties can communicate openly and honestly to explore their options and work together to develop mutually agreeable solutions.

When parties are in dispute, they are often feeling angry, hurt, and defensive. This can make it difficult for them to communicate effectively and to listen to each other. In mediation, the mediator creates a space where the parties can feel safe and comfortable sharing their perspectives and exploring their options. The mediator also helps the parties to listen to each other and to understand each other’s perspectives.

This open and honest communication is essential for resolving disputes. When the parties can communicate effectively, they can better understand each other’s interests and needs, which allows them to work together to develop creative solutions that meet those interests and needs.

Another benefit of mediation is that it empowers the parties to control the process and to make their own decisions. The mediator does not impose a solution on the parties. Instead, the mediator helps the parties to identify their options and to make decisions that are right for them. This sense of empowerment is important for resolving disputes. When the parties feel like they have control over the process and that they are making their own decisions, they are more likely to be satisfied with the outcome.

To recap, mediation works because it provides a safe and supportive environment for communication, empowers the parties to control the process and to make their own decisions, and helps the parties to identify and develop creative solutions to their conflict.

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